He tells me to go to gym, spa, learn some new sex tricks from dvds, buy new lingeries, etc.
But between the neverending cycle of cooking, cleaning, nursing, working from home (I have to work because he doesnt have a steady job), where should I fit spa and gym?

I try to get him to help with baby once in a while, but he would only do it for a sexual favour, like.... he would watch baby for a while in exchange for a bl0w j0b, bath the baby in exchange for intercourse, change nappy if I give him a full body massage afterwards..... oh and if he changes poopy nappy...... he would want me to do ALL those things, which I dont always have time for.

But now that the sight of me turns him off, I cant ask him to help with baby anymore. I have no one to help me care for baby and we cant afford day care or nanny because he has used up all my savings to buy the new car. Help please.
thanks mommyheather, it feels good to hear someone say something nice